OK folks, so here's my summary on Pavel for all of you. My son played bantam aa at riptide for 2 years, midget 18aa at Simi as a 15 (long story) and midget 16aa for Pavel again last year. He's 18aa this year but probably is not going to play mainly because Simi is not for him and Valencia is too far probably with too many goalies and he's average at best with school being a priority.
As for Pavel, he comes with many pluses and one major minus. Pluses: major player development, great amount of ice time, does not permit any cussing, knows the game as well as anyone I've seen, and runs the best practices around. Boys are never standing around. Also has dryland before and after ice. Kids will be in the best shape of their lives. Our boys competed with 9 skaters at the end of the year last year. Is passionate about the game and cares about making the kids better hockey players.
Minus: is not kid friendly and will overreact for some situations. Benched my son for a game (goalie) for undoing his strap in the locker room after a practice when Pavel was talking. Now, we did talk to him and he rescinded. But Pavel can cause anxiety and he's better with Midgets than bantams. If your son is the sensitive type, it could be a tough season. Having said that, my sons midget season was the best of his life because we sat with him early on and addressed the issues.
In conclusion, don't be afraid of him, he's not God. Your child's welfare comes first and we forget that at bantam sometimes as we get caught up in the game. You can approach him and discuss any issues that arise but only 24 hours after games, which I think is a good rule, and only in his office, also a good rule. Overall, I recommend Pavel with caution. Great for the game and the rink, but keep an eye on your son.
All the best to all of you and good luck during these stressful times. I personally will miss it greatly.