Daddy Coaches, Pay to play, highly political (esp AA and AAA) and a whole lot of aggro/ toxic parents.
My eldest son grew up playing in both the OCHC, Jr, Kings, and Jr. Ducks programs and eventually went back East to play hockey.
My other son started hockey and the politics were so bad, that he removed himself and is now playing high-level travel Lacrosse with much less
politics.
My daughter has gone full-blown with Lacrosse and has never played hockey.
CAHA- the daddy coaches, anger issue coaches, wacko parents, and The Big 3 clubs have made AA-AAA hockey unbearable here.