I love this post on the CAHA home page.
From "Offsides"
Jun 13, 2020 12:17 PM
Kid gets cut from team - blame coach
Kid gets fired from job - blame boss
Kid does bad in school - blame teacher
Kid gets cheated out of win - blame ref
Misguided blame creates an environment of entitlement not appropriately aligned with the true spirit of winning in life.
Offsides left one off the list.... "Kids who don't get the VAX get barred from CAHA - blame CAHA"
This blame would absolutely NOT be misguided.