Skates, I am happy that you made a well thought out decision to have your son play squirt A. I would never state that he was undeserving of playing that level or higher, nor that you were crazy for making the decision to do so. So when you state that parents of 06s playing Pee Wee A are crazy, and imply, that the kids are underserving, you just sound petty and, yes, jealous. And the notion that there are 06s who should play at PW AA, and at Squirt A, but not at PW A, is just illogical. Why not just be comfortable with your decision to play Squirt A?
I am sure there are parents chasing letters at A and AA; there are also parents chasing easy wins and easy goals at Squirt A. But there are also a lot of parents, hopefully most of us, that made well thought out decisions about our player's skill, size, desire, maturity etc., and tried him out for the team and level that we thought he would best fit. Some of us may even have consulted multiple coaches and tried various levels in the spring to see what was the best fit.